To quit or not to quit

Life oftentimes deals us blows and punches. What one battles with in these circumstances is whether to charge, to hit back or retreat. At the end of the day, it remains an individual’s call what to do. After all, who else lives with this choice. Quitting has been associated with cowardice. We have been told…

Age is just a number

Human beings fuss over a lot of things and one of those things is age. We have magnified age to the extent that it limits our progress in life. At one point we are too young to do something and before we realize it, we are now too old to do the same thing. I…

The past – enemy of destiny

Isn’t life interesting? Tomorrow, today will be yesterday. It will be a day in our past. Whether or not it was fully utilised is immaterial. Today would have taken over but the most interesting part is that one way or the other we often ignore today and dwell on yesterday. However, the successes or failures…

Operation find Ona

A few years ago I started on a journey of self discovery;this ritual comes highly recommended for anyone who wants to live a worthwhile life. I realised I was lost in the crowd.I started tracing my life back to when I was young and innocent, when I cared less about the opinions of people, when…

Rest!

This past weekend my body decided to shut down, well, almost. I couldn’t figure out which part was unwell or whether I was coming down with flu or something. Yes, going to the doctor is always the last resort for me and I know you all relate. I tried to wake up at the usual…

Marriage-no facade

This month we celebrate our 10th anniversary in marriage. While everyone else will be donning the blue, black and white in celebration of Botswana’s 50 years of independence, we will be stealing the shine as we have done in the past 10 years . Now, having been in marriage for ten years I am convinced…

Train up a..

We had a work retreat recently, the first of its kind since I joined my work place. Among the speakers was a gentleman by the name of Mr. Kgwarae who unraveled some painful truths in a very unfamiliar way. I say this because of the commentaries from the audience, of which I was part, that…

stop bullying

Bullying is an old phenomenon. The Oxford dictionary describes a bully as a person who deliberately intimidates or persecutes those who are weaker. The Wikipedia defines it as  the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others, which  behavior is often repeated and habitual.I must confess that when I was…

Trust God

God is jealous. Yes, he is. If you don’t believe me go to Deuteronomy 6:15 and you will find this verse, ” for The Lord thy God is a jealous God.” When he created mankind, he was pleased with himself, he invested a lot in him, he formed him in his likeness and fully satisfied…

Happy birthday my friend

I have a very special friend whom I regard as a brother now because our friendship has gone beyond friendship. My friend and I met in church in September 1995 and he made it his mission to work on my life and mold me in the fear of God.I still remember how he would pay…